happiness

This is How to Obliterate (Social) Anxiety – Red Lemon Club

Most suggestions about how to ‘fix’ our social anxiety are devoid of motion/action/movement: ‘Meditate for hours daily.’ ‘Repeat affirmations that you are confident.’ ‘Pray.’ ‘Just relax and be yourself.’ ‘Take that pill.’ ‘Think differently.’ ‘Be present.’ ‘Talk about your sad childhood with a therapist.’ Some of these can help. Absolutely. However, I do not believe …

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How to REALLY do what you love, and change your life doing it – Red Lemon Club

Making art for a living is hard. Hang on, you didn’t think it was supposed to be easy, did you? ‘Go and do what you love, and the money will follow!’ They say. ‘Follow your passion!’ They hoot. None of these feel-good phrases gets to the truth of what is involved. Now, don’t get me …

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The Red Lemon Show – Red Lemon Club

There is too much content on the web. So much of what you want to read; to listen to; to watch, that it would take several lifetimes to enjoy it. I’ve thought this for a very long time. BUT, occasionally something does come along that makes me re-think how I use my time, and where …

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Prove yourself wrong. Live life unexpectedly – Red Lemon Club

Just as I have repeatedly made mistakes, I’ve spent my life surprising myself. Over and over and over again. Mistake. Surprise. Mistake. Mistake. Surprise. Mistake. Surprise. I’ve lost myself to despair from failures. I’ve felt the elation that erupts from taking courage and pulling through. I’ve experienced the joy that comes from surprising myself. The …

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